I can't remember where I took it. It was online, and had a fairly detailed number of questions. Possibly this: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp

The 'most hated' was when you went to look at who else had the personality. Then you run into arguments, like whether Hillary Clinton is even an INTJ or is instead an INTP, and 'Why the hell is Arnold Schwarzenegger on this list, he's clearly an Extrovert!", and the most significant noted example: the Unibomber. /o\

Plus an easy-to-find links around the web on "How INTJs are irritating to other people".

Yay.